A familiar pattern has been surfacing for me, I know from experience to not invalidate myself, I am in a new place with it, even though it seems not. And to own that this is what I am wanting to learn about, master. Some one once said to focus on the gain and not the loss.
Being a person with alot of mutability, wateriness, boundaries are challenging, but oh so necessary. I can splash around quite easily and slop over the edges. But I am realizing it is draining for me to be in situations that this happens, my energy system gives me strong feedback - that I am not taking care of my resources.
The people pleasing theme, of needing to be needed can trigger this, wanting to be loved -and boy do I loose my boundaries. I feel the key here is kindness, compassion and forgiveness with the process, that is with my relationship with my core issue, that is success, verses being a bully to myself. And also then being the strong guardian to stand up for my truth - what I need to ask for - that I have not been doing - which is a way of debting oneself.
What we value, we need to make real in our own lives first. Valuing our unique gifts, taking care of them,
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This blog is one way I share my self expression. My system of well-being is based on what is showing up, right now. I am an appreciator, having infinite conversations