to blame anyone, including myself. We are all doing the best we can with the understanding, knowledge, and awareness we have. " Louise Hay
I found this quote hit the nail on the head after I struggled all day to discover new perception of an experience I had on Thanksgiving. I was realllllllllllllllllly in the blame game of someone else's behavior being hurtful to me. I sloshed it around my heart and mind, convinced I was right. I even got others to agree.
I thought "this is the end of the relationship"
I remembered a teacher once said, when you are not getting along with someone, it is time to look within. I followed the hurt, it swelled to anger, then pride, abandonment...where was I letting this bother me, giving my power to it. My 5 year old- being told she was not good enough...she believed it. I can choose anew. That was just someone having their opinion...
I didn't realize I was blaming.
Gosh, I forgave myself.
After doing several more imaginary cartwheels and flips through my deck of Louise Hay, this card said it all.
Thank you thank you Louise for being a guide in peace creating.
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